Live Life Blessed

Are you stupid or what?  How could you do such a thing?  Why would you quit your job to start a business?  You act just like your Grandmother, dumb.  Just stay where you are.  Your Mother would be alive if you were not such a problem child.  Looks like you have gained some weight.  I wouldn’t be in this situation if you would have kept your mouth shut.  You cannot be your mother’s daughter.    AND I am supposed to love myself after hearing all of those words.    One of the biggest lessons I have ever learned is to watch what comes out of your mouth because once you say it you can never take it back.  These words will stay with me for a life time but through a lot of hard work I have learned to know they are just words and they will never hurt me again. 

Watch what you say to your friends and loved ones, just because other people may have hurt you with words don’t repeat it and hurt others with your own words.  When you love yourself you realize nothing gets accomplished by saying hurtful things.  So many of us have experienced hurtful words and continue to project them on others.  Stop and think about the worst thing someone said to you and I bet it stuck in your mind for a long time.  The old saying “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” is an untrue statement.  Unkind words do hurt!  Love your friends and family for who they are.  If they are going through a difficult time, don’t tongue slash them, instead try to understand what pain they are in that is causing them to go through a difficult time. 

If you are unkind to others with your words, take a good hard look at yourself!  Most people who are unkind, lack self esteem and truly do not love themselves.  Learn to treat others like you would like to be treated and start loving yourself…the world will be a much better place.

Be kind with your words no matter what!

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